Is it Permissible to send the elderly Mother to the Nursing...

With: KH Cecep Jayakarama Assalamualaikum,  Let me introduce myself, my name is Putri, I am a single mother. My husband passed away a year ago. I...

Can I File for Divorce from a Husband Who Joins a...

By KH. Cecep Jayakarma (Nurulhuda Islamic Boarding School Garut)   Assalamu’alaikum, To introduce myself Kiai, my name is Mrs Nur. I was married for five years and was...

May a Woman Reject Her Husband’s Request for Sexual Intercourse?

Assalamu’alaikum Please, introduce my name. I am Melawati. I have been married for five years and we have 2 children. Every day, I work to...

Doubt to Let the Child Study at Pesantren

Muhyiddin Abdusshomad Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh. Dear Kyai, I am Ahmad Aziz, a husband and father of 3 children (male and female) where the eldest is...

Wife Files for a Divorce for not Being Financially Supported and...

Assalamu’alaikum wr.wb. Dear reverend Kyai, my name is Wulan, 38 years old, married to Edi, 40 years old. During 18 years of our marriage, Alhamdulillah,...

Some Concerns with the Family-Related Marriage Relation

Coached by KH. Muhyiddin Abdusshomad Assalaamualaikum Pak Kyai (a male pesantren leader),  Thank you for presenting us this useful consultation rubric to discuss religious matters. Let...

How to Advise Friends Who Are the Victims of Violence by...

Muhyiddin Abdusshomad  Assalamu’alaikum wr.wb.  Pak Kyai (an honor term for Muslim clergy), I am a college student who lives close to the campus. I have...

Qada’ Fasting for Women

Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarokatuh Ibu Nyai, my name is Riana from Banten, a mother of 2 toddlers. I would like to inquire about qada’ rules of...

Children’s Rights & the Joint Property

Assalamu‘alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarokatuh. May peace be upon you by Allah mercy and blessing. I am K, a housewife (36 years old) with two children (14...

On the Secret (Sirri) Marriage

By KH. Muhyiddin Abdushomad Question: Assalamu alaikum wr. wb.  Dear Kyai, how does Islam view about the sirri marriage (unregistered marriage—literally in Bahasa called ‘nikah sirri’)? Some...